A look inside
See it in action.
Dating Counselor sits in your pocket and does what your kindest, sharpest friend would, cross-examines your match before and after every date, catches the patterns you keep repeating, and says the thing nobody else will. All of it stays on your phone. None of it ever leaves.
You want something serious. Their profile agreed, their behaviour didn't. Believe the person, not the profile.
Somewhere between the butterflies and the group-chat screenshots, the truth gets lost. Dating Counselor asks the questions a friend, a parent, a detective, and a psychologist would, then holds your answers up against the goals and dealbreakers you set. It doesn't flatter you. It's on your side, which is a different thing entirely.
A private profile of what you actually want, your goals, your attachment style, your absolute dealbreakers, and the traps you keep falling into.
Answer built-in questions before the date and after it. The counselor listens like four people at once, the friend, the mother, the cop, the shrink.
A clear flag score, the green and red flags spelled out, and a deep read that connects this match to every pattern you've shown before.
Each question is designed to surface something a single perspective would miss.
Be honest, did you actually have fun, or did you just enjoy having a date at all?
Strips away the excitement of the occasion to find the real spark.
How did they treat the waiter, and could you be your messy, unfiltered self around them?
Character shows in how someone treats people they don't need to impress.
Did their story check out, and did they ask a lot of pointed questions about where you live?
Catches inconsistencies, boundary-testing, and quiet safety red flags.
How did they handle a small 'no', and did you feel calm afterward, or anxious and confused?
Reads for control, love-bombing, and whether your nervous system felt safe.
A little black book for each match: name, job, city, dietary quirks, key stories. Never mix two people up again.
Vet them while you're still texting, then debrief once you've met. Two lenses on the same person.
The moment a match crosses a line you drew yourself, the counselor stops you cold, no rationalizing.
Across every match you audit, it spots the loops: the player magnet, the breadcrumb habit, the regret cycle.
It grades you too. If you were the one on your phone all night, it says so. Honesty cuts both ways.
No account, no cloud, no analytics. The counselor runs entirely on your device, even in airplane mode.
If a date crosses into pressure or harm, the app drops the scoring and tells you plainly: get help.
"Wait, is she the one who's vegetarian, or was that the guy from Hinge? Did I already ask him where he grew up?"
When you're actively dating more than one person, the details blur. You forget who works where, who has the dog, who you can't take for sushi, what you already told each other. One slip and a promising match feels like you weren't listening, because you weren't, you just couldn't remember.
Every match gets a private Dossier: their real name, job, city and neighbourhood, family, hobbies, dietary quirks, where things stand, key stories they told you, and topics to avoid. Add a photo so faces never blur. Open it before a date and walk in fully briefed, like the kind of person who remembers everything.
It's the quiet superpower of the exhausted dater. And because it holds this much personal detail about real people, it could only ever live in a private, on-device app, never a website, never a server.
Plenty of apps now throw AI at your love life to "spot red flags." We think that's two mistakes wearing one coat. First, feeding your most private messages and dates to someone else's model is a privacy nightmare. Second, an AI is a black box with its own biases, and it will happily flag them while letting you off the hook.
Dating Counselor doesn't need AI to tell you the truth. Your patterns and a date's red flags can be cross-referenced and calculated straight from your answers. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that you keep chasing the same trap, or that "forgot my wallet" on date one is a bad sign.
Download it, try it, and see the difference for yourself.
Dating apps monetize your loneliness. We refuse to. Everything you tell the counselor is stored only on your phone, protected by iOS encryption, we couldn't read it if a court asked us to.
If you're ever in danger, your safety comes before any score. If someone threatens you, gets violent, or pressures you into anything without your consent, that is abuse, never your fault, and not something to audit. Put distance between you, tell someone you trust, and contact your local emergency number or a domestic-abuse helpline.
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